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Positive Thinking – Whatever The Mind Can Conceive

'Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve' – Napoleon Hill

Our mind is an incredible power whose abilities and powers no one is aware of. Even great scientist are said to have used only a small fragment of their brains capacity. They have proved that a normal human being uses only 10% of his mind and they are also of the opinion that 75% of all sickness the human being confront is due to this 10% mental power. This clearly shows that even the 10% that we use is not optimized or used diplomatically.

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What are the stages that couples go through in their marriage and relationship? How can you deal with the arguments that occur in a marriage and a relationship?

 

In every relationship and every marriage, couples go through stages of a relationship and experience some differences. Some of those differences and arguments end quickly, others take longer to time to solve. In this article, I will mention three of these stages that couples experience in marriage.

 

To learn about the 3 stages of a relationship, follow the below steps:

 

1.Arguments in the first year-

 

When couples fight in the first year, usually each one of them brings in his or her customs and opinions that could be different from their spouse. Each side also could try to impose his personality on the other side, which usually leads to problems.

 

The best way to deal with such issues is to compromise and not to focus on things that will make the arguments get worse. Try to focus on the similarities and how you two resemble each other.

 

2. Jealousy and outside interferences-

 

In around the third year of marriage or a relationship, jealousy could occur in the relationship. The best way to deal with such issue is to not let jealousy get to you and not to let anyone from outside interfere in your relationship.

 

3. Friendship-

 

In around the fifth year of marriage or a relationship, the couples in the relationship will place a high value on friendship. Each person will be an open book in front of the other. Most women become preoccupied with the children and both sides might suffer boredom as life becomes more of a routine.

 

The best way to deal with this stage of a relationship is to make sure that you show more interest in your relationship by spending time together and strive to break the routine at least one a month.

 

Always remember what Doug Larson said, "More marriages might survive if the partners realized that sometimes the better comes after the worse." Retrieved from "http://www.articlesbase.com/marriage-articles/stages-of-a-relationship-and-marriage-3289003.html"(ArticlesBase SC #3289003)

 

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Do you know that only 3% of the world's population manage to plan and reach their goals? The main goal for 2achieveyourgoals.com is to help you become from the top 3% of the world's population who know how to achieve any goal they desire in all areas of life. If you have a specific goal that you want to accomplish or want to improve an area of your life, but do not know how or why you are not getting any result, then this is the place for you.

Do you know someone who is stubborn and doesn't change his opinion? How can you deal with a stubborn person?

A stubborn person is one who refuses to change his mind about an idea, opinion, or an action that he wants to take, and refuses to give explanation to why he is resisting. Often times, it is hard to try to convince someone who is stubborn and doesn't believe in anything except his ideas, so what makes a person stubborn?

Causes of stubbornness

1. The person defends his opinion

A stubborn person might feel that his opinion or idea is not liked by others and neglected, so he tries to make himself important by imposing his opinion on others.

2. Belief in his opinion

He might believe that what he thinks and believes is the truth and it is a fact, hence opposes anyone who doesn't agree with him.

3. Pride

A stubborn person might oppose anyone who says he is wrong. This stubborn person might stick with what he thinks for the sake of his pride.

4. Inner feelings of inferiority

A person could be stubborn because he might feel that he is inferior compared to others. He tries to cover his weakness by screaming and imposing his opinion, so he can feel that he is better than everyone else.

Dealing with a stubborn person

To learn how to deal with a stubborn person, follow the quick guide below:

1. Be flexible

Learn to be flexible and don't try to impose what you say on someone who is stubborn. When you try to force your opinion, this might lead to arguments. Try to find common ground with the person who is stubborn and try not to appear that you know more than him.

2. Respect his opinion

Don't tell the stubborn person that he is wrong. A stubborn person doesn't like it when someone tells him that he is wrong and he might close all doors of understanding and will not accept any other opinion.

3. Don't attack

To make a stubborn person accept your point of view, you must not attack him. Try to show him during your discussion that this is how you feel regarding the idea based on what he said.

4. Agree to disagree

If the conversation gets heated, then it is better to agree to disagree. If you believe that the other person will not agree with you and he is being stubborn, then why you want to continue with the conversation?

5. Be patient

When you are with a stubborn person, you have to be patient. Don't give him a chance to irritate and upset you.

6. Avoid rushing in speech

When you talk, you have to be careful which words to use. If you react in a negative way towards him without listening to his idea, he might put you in a difficult position. It is a good idea to mention something positive about his ideas each once a while, so you can encourage him to understand you better.

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Following Impulses

It was nine o'clock in the evening, the night before we were leaving for a nine-day vacation. There was a lot to pack because of the logistics of the trip. My mate and I were driving (with our boat behind us) for four hours to Lake Shasta. My godmother's cabin on the lake was the meeting place for my mate and me, my brother, and several other people who'd be joining us later in the week for a rafting trip down the Rogue River in Oregon.

Since I'm the organizer in my house, I had long lists of what I was packing, including food, river gear, stuff to entertain my 20-month-old, and so much more. My mate only had to think about what he was putting in his suitcase. Yet, at this late hour, he was ripping apart the garage to find a small gadget that had several tools in it. We were staying in cabins and lodges for the whole trip, not camping! So, I was bit agitated that this is what he was spending his time doing. I may have even have given him "the look."

On our first night at the river, we stayed at an obscure lodge with no staff present when we checked in that evening. They'd left the door to our room open. Before we went to bed, my mate had closed the pocket door to the bathroom. I thought this was a bad idea since I'm pregnant and use the restroom often during the middle of the night. I made a mental note to not run into the door in the dark

When I woke up to use the bathroom, I found the pocket door locked. I fooled with it for several minutes before my mate got up and tried to help me. It was locked. Guess what he whipped out of his dry bag for the river trip? That handy gadget with all the tools that he'd searched for in the garage! He removed the lock in minutes.

Now, I was thankful he'd spent so much time looking for it and I had my tail between my legs feeling bad that I'd given him a hard time for getting "side tracked" while we were packing.

Following your inspired impulses is always a sign of Divine Guidance. Yet, we often feel bad when we give in to them. You may have experienced this yourself as you find yourself off purpose during a workday. You have ten things that must get done and then you find yourself cleaning out an office drawer. You're not doing it as a way to avoid your work; you just sort of landed in the inspired task.

These impulses (even many impulse purchases) are in your best interest. If it feels wonderful while you're following the impulse (I'm not talking about indulging in an addiction), then it is the right and perfect action. Never second guess yourself once you have followed the impulse. This is what causes the chaos, not the act of following the impulse.

Enjoy your inspired tangents and let them rejuvenate you. They may end up saving your marriage, business, health, or bladder.

Jeanna Gabellini – About the Author:

Jeanna Gabellini, is a Master Business Coach who assists high achieving entrepreneurs, corporate leaders & their teams to leverage fun, systems and intentionality for high-octane results. Jeanna co-authored Life Lessons for Mastering the Law of Attraction with Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen and Eva Gregory. Get a FREE subscription to her weekly ezine to go BIG, with less effort here :http://www.MasterPeaceCoaching.com/ezine.

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Are you doing the work?

You know that thing in your life or business that is driving you crazy because it's not changing? Are you frustrated enough to really get down to business with it?

Yes, I know you think you've tried everything already but you haven't. If you'd truly done the work needed it would've already been on its way to resolving itself and you'd be as happy as a clam.

Now when I've asked if you had done the work, I didn't mean "work" as in physical action. I meant the internal work. It's not even really work, it's a practice. It's taking the time each day to practice a different perspective on your topic of angst.

If your "thing" is